Soooo many times, women say they want to
know what men really think. They say they
want the “male perspective,” but I’m often
amazed at how when they get that perspective,
they proceed to tell men why their perspective
is wrong. NEWS FLASH, just because our
perspective is different than yours, doesn’t
make our perspective WRONG! Let me clear
the air with these 6 BIG things men want you
to know about them!
1) He has feelings too
Yup, I know they told you he wasn’t allowed to
have feelings but guess what, when he came
out of the womb he cried too! I know they told
you, that you could stomp all over his
emotions and he should be strong enough to
just “take it.” Well, the truth of the matter is,
just because he doesn’t express emotion in
the way that you do, doesn’t mean that he
doesn’t have them.
When you consistently beat him down and
make him feel like a failure it hurts. When you
constantly turn him down for s*x and make
him feel undesirable it hurts. When you never
show any appreciation for his efforts, it hurts.
When you complain about everything he
doesn’t do and never acknowledge what he
does do, yup….it hurts.
2) You get more bees with honey
I know you may think that you can walk
around the house like a Military Mom and that
will get him to “act right”. The truth of the
matter is that, you will get way more out of
him by being nice, sweet, and feminine than
you ever will by being the house warden.
Remember when you were dating and you had
him wrapped around your finger? That’s
probably because back then you were sweet
more than sour, and feminine more than
militant.
3) Don’t emasculate him
That’s all that needs to be said about this one
4) Your way isn’t the only way.
This can use some explaining. I know that you
have your way of doing things, but your way
isn’t the only way. The way you wash the
dishes, the way you fold the clothes, the way
you handle the kids aren’t the only way. Just
because he doesn’t do things the way that YOU
do them, doesn’t make him wrong. So instead
of condemning him all the time for not doing
things your way, how about just say thank
you! You don’t see him fussing at you for how
you do things, even though they’re different
from how he does it. Think about that!
5) Tell him what you want.
Before you walk around mad because he isn’t
reading your mind how about you, just tell him
what it is that you want or need. You are being
passive aggressive and complaining about
everything, yet you have yet to actually tell
him what exactly it is that you are upset
about. He asks “What’s wrong?” You say
“Nothing.” He believes you and then you get
mad at him for not changing anything. Speak
up and communicate! And before you ask
“Why should I have to?” The answer
is….because you want to be happy.
6) Appreciation means so much to him.
Ladies love to ask “Why should I say thank
you for something that he is supposed to do?”
The cashier at the store is supposed to give
you your change back and you don’t hesitate
to say thank you then. Can your man get the
same courtesy? The same reason you like for
him to acknowledge your efforts, is the same
reason that you should acknowledge his. The
same reason why, sometimes you feel like no
one notices all that you do at home. If no one
ever stops, looks you in the eyes, or pats you
on the back and says, “thank you!” You could
easily feel some type of way. Your man wants
to know that you appreciate his efforts, and
besides, saying “Thank You!” isn’t a very hard
thing to do
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