Some
people just don't know what to say or do when in the bedroom and in the
heat of passion. When you say the wrong thing, it could kill the moment
and even make your partner lose interest. Stay away from these bedroom
blunders.
It’s highly likely that at some point you’ve erred in bed. Maybe
you smoothed over whatever misstep you made with your quick wit and sly
smile, or you crashed and burned without a return call the next day.
Well, David Strovny has written the best tips to overcome these blunders. You must read and understand it all.
1. Clumsiness
You don’t have to be a Casanova — smooth, suave and completely at
ease — in order to be a good lover. But a few elbows in the head, maybe
pinning her hair to the bed, and knocking foreheads or teeth can indeed
put your more pleasurable antics on hold. But just like a singer on
stage or an actor in a play, when you stumble and make a slip, you have
to keep going without hesitation and delay. Push through little
mistakes. If you don’t dwell on the negative, she won’t either. If you
fuss about your accidental bumps, she’ll definitely be put off. Keep the
mood unbroken and your bruises and scrapes the proud war wounds of
incredibly hot s*x.
2. Bodily functions
It’s happened. After a meal, some drinks, carbonation… and voila!
Some excess air starts building in pressure and it has two options:
going up or down. Burping near her, in her mouth while kissing is
something to avoid, and so is letting go of some noisome stomach
pressure down below. Still, when it’s an accident, all you can do is
laugh about it. Women will appreciate your joking nature. Funny noises
during s*x are common. When you think about it, most sounds we make are
grotesque, but everyone makes them, so they're forgivable. Even little
miss hottie underneath you writhing away makes noises that are
less-than-pleasant sometimes. So, crack a joke — and maybe a window —
and go back to giving her a great time.
3. Inappropriate comments
You can tell that you’ve made a mistake when that cricket
screeching in the background is the only noise that’s heard after you
tell her something you think is particularly sexy. When she doesn’t know
how to respond to your dirty talk or when she takes offense to what you
say, do not respond aggressively or reciprocally. Don’t get upset.
Continue to soothe and state that you are just talking dirty for fun.
However, it is best to switch your use of profanity to descriptions of
how she’s making you feel, what she feels like to you, etc. You can
still use imagery artistically to create that erotic environment where
she feels a little wild and free to talk back.
4. Crossing her boundaries
If you cross a line, such as trying anal without asking and waiting
for her consent, be prepared for her refusal and maybe her hasty exit.
Trust is the biggest issue. She is vulnerable during s*x and trusts you
to value her boundaries. If you find that you have made some blatant
transgression, don’t make a huge deal out of it or move your hands or
position to a completely new spot. Just stop the offending action in a
smooth transition to another more pleasurable activity for her.
5. Finishing too soon
If it’s been a while, don’t let her know. She’ll know enough when
you secretly make her “one-minute man” list. Though it would be perfect
s*x to make her experience shattering multiple orgasms that have her
screaming in pleasure, it may have felt too damn good for you to hold
back. Coming quickly isn’t something you want to do all the time, but
when you do, don’t apologize. Instead, play on her vanity as an
exceptionally sexy woman — one that made you lose all control. Say
something like, "Wow, you are too hot, I just couldn't hold it in any
longer." This way, she’ll take your premature ejaculation as a
compliment whereas, if you apologize, she’ll see it as a flaw. To make
up for your quickie performance, give her the best oral of her life
until you regain your upright stature.
6. Taking too long
Here’s the opposite of the above problem. Some men, like some
women, take a little too long to orgasm. Women may feel numb — and even
sore — after a while of continual pounding, and men may feel like a
robot. A great solution would be to discontinue the action under an
acceptable guise such as a bathroom break. When you return, it will be
easier for both parties to move on from there. If she feels guilty about
you not getting yours, let her know she can get you back at any
opportunity.
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