If you have been eyeing your ex and wondering how you can get her right back, then these tips should be of help to you.
Have you ever been completely in love with a woman, and then
somehow, in some unimaginable way, you lost her? If you really want to
reignite an old flame, you must know the right moves to make and the
right time to make them.
Here are 5 things you can do to maximize your chances.
1. Give her some space
In order to win your ex back, you need to show her a new side of
you, or basically the “old you” she once fell in love with. The only way
to do this is to give her some space to forget her current assessment
of you, let her forget the things that impacted her decision to leave
and wipe the slate clean. The amount of time needed will be based on the
amount of time the two of you dated, while taking into consideration
the events that transpired during the relationship.
2. Communicate with her
If you really want her back, you have to be the man and apologize
for what went wrong. If she was hurt by you, she’ll want to stay away
from you for fear of getting hurt again. So after some time has passed,
man up and apologize in person for what you did to her. Be sincere and
tell her you made a mistake. Don’t just say, “I’m sorry for everything.”
Instead, apologize for whatever mistakes you made. She will appreciate
this, and it will make you seem more self-aware and sincere. If she
doesn’t accept your apology right away, she’s probably still working
through what happened, but probably still appreciates your effort.
3. Show her how much you’ve changed
Just saying “I’m willing to change” won’t cut it. You’re ex should
be able to see how much you’ve changed without you having to say it
yourself. If she sees you “trying” or having some sort of agenda to get
her back, you’re done! Did she complain that you never listened to her?
Then be quiet and really listen to what she has to say. Subtly show her
the new you, make the effort to cultivate your good qualities, suppress
the bad ones, and show her that she’s worth the sacrifice.
4. Tell her how you feel and get the ball rolling
Once she can begin to see that you’re a different person and you
start getting one foot back in the door, be honest and share your true
feelings. If the relationship ended badly, she’s not going to ask you to
start things up again, so you need to get your act together, open up
and get the ball rolling. Pick a time when she’s not too busy and you
can be alone and tell her that you can’t believe what an idiot you’ve
been. Explain to her that she was the best thing that ever happened to
you and that you really screwed up. Let her know that you would like to
try again, and hopefully you’ll get the answer you were looking for.
5. Take her out and treat her right
If you’re lucky enough to get a second chance, make the most of
your time together and treat her right this time! Bring her flowers,
take her to a nice restaurant and turn up the romance that was probably
missing before. If the date goes well, and if there are more dates to
follow, look at it as starting fresh. Remind yourself what happened the
last time and vow not to do it again if you really want to stay with
this woman. You don’t have to rehash the old relationship, but work on
building something completely new and much better.
While these are excellent tips, they are by no means foolproof.
Some women think that once they dump you, it’s over and done with. So if
she tells you that she’s ready to move on, just accept it, take the
lessons that you’ve learned and move on. Meeting new women is a good
option that will boost your confidence and could be the pathway to
finding the right relationship for you.
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