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Ghanaian counselor, motivational speaker and author, Counselor Adofoli,
took to his Facebook to write an interesting article to youths who are
yet to marry.
DON'T MARRY ANYONE WHO PUT PASSWORD ON THEIR PHONE
If you are single and thinking of marriage then please don't marry
anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security
to prevent you from accessing their conversations. They can surely do
this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for
this action.
I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security
purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the
reason for that security measure.
There is nothing like secrecy or privacy in marriage, let no one
deceive you there is, and let no one tell you he or she is doing that to
save you from getting hurt.
Marriage is a holy institution, there is nothing like hiding.
Marriage is made for life and one of the very things that can destroy it
is acts of hiding things.
The bible says in Genesis 2:25 (TLB) "Now although the man and his
wife were both naked, neither of them was embarrassed or ashamed".
What are you embarrassed or ashamed of your spouse seeing? If you
can't be truthful, honest and transparent with them, then there is no
need getting married to them. It doesn't matter how you feel about them.
Mark 10:8 (NLV) says “The two will become one. So they are no
longer two, but one”. I therefore suggest to you, if he or she is hiding
things from you, it simply means they don’t want to become one with
you. Such a marriage won’t last.
Many people don't know trust is more important than love in any
relationship especially marriage. Love without trust is empty. Trust
enhances love, it makes it beautiful and fortified. Trust is very
essential. Not even thieves can work together if they can't trust each
other.
An employer and employee cannot have a good relationship if trust
doesn't exist. It takes trust for citizens to elect one of their own as
their leader or president. It takes trust for God to perform miracles in
our lives as humans.
Your relationship is bound to fail if you agree to marry someone
you don't trust. The simple question is, if I can trust you with the
most important organ in my life which is the heart, that which holds my
life in the name of love, then why can't I trust you with a phone
conversation or chat?
If the chat is more important than me, then you don't need me in
your life. I'm supposed to be the most important person in your life and
can't stand the competition with passwords.
Once I agree to marry you, it means I trust you, and there is no
need to suspect you, or secretly read your chats etc. in your absence.
In Ephesians 5:21 (TLB) bible instructs spouses to "Honor Christ by
submitting to each other".
In other words, respect each other and for that matter If I need to
have access to your phone or social media account, I need to seek your
approval or ask for your permission.
Our goal in marriage is to be good couples. A good wife will be the
husband's peace and a good husband will be the wife's protection. If
you are married but find yourself guilty by this message, please change.
You might not understand the damage you are causing your marriage and
spouse until the same thing is done to you.
In conclusion "If you do the right thing, honesty will be your
guide. But if you are crooked, you will be trapped by your own
dishonesty" - Proverbs 11:3 (CEV).
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